The rejection of a break up can really hurt. It’s not uncommon for most of us to feel that the relationships are one of the simple foundations of our lives. Once your girlfriend tells you that she wants out and you suddenly find yourself single, it can seriously make you question a lot of things.
You may realized that you made several serious mistakes in your marriage and you want to make things most suitable. But how can you tell in case your ex-girlfriend still like you or if you still have a shot with her? Here are a few signs him or her wants you back.
Rather what you want to do is focus on the over all picture. Ask yourself if this is the over all body language of a female that is interested in you, or one who isn’t? It is a good sign if her body language is open and generally leaning toward you. It is a negative sign if she is closed off and pulling from you.
Use these signs to know if your ex wants you back or not really. Remember though to watch out for cues that she might be trying to cord you along or benefit from you. If it ever appears to be she likes you but you don’t ever seem to be making progress with her, then seriously question whether or not she may be trying to take advantage of you.
Likewise look at her body language. There exists an entire science to body gestures, but I don’t think it is actually helpful to really obsess above every little fidget or detail. After all, one body gestures cue taken out of context could be completely misleading and will not tell the whole story.
First, keep in mind that, although most people are reasonable, some may try to make use of you. Be on the look out for obvious things that the ex-girlfriend might say or perhaps do to manipulate you or string you along. If perhaps she seems to want a thing from you, such as gifts or favors, but you really don’t manage to making any real progress with her, be cautious dealing with her.
You have to look beyond surface things that she may say or perhaps do just to string you along. Take everything she says with a grain of salt. So then, what should you look for?
Look at her activities. While words can easily be faked, actions are much more difficult. Did she remember your birthday or do something special for yourself? Ask yourself if these are the sorts of things that someone who keeps you in their thoughts? If they are, then you know that your ex-girlfriend is still thinking of you.
When you still hold a special put in place her thoughts, then you can guarantee that you still have a shot by getting her back. The truth is, as long as she associates any kind of emotion with you, then you can easily rekindle that spark. The one problem comes when the girl seems indifferent or totally cold toward you.